When it comes to dating, men aren’t exactly the smartest most of the time. Sure, there are a lot of men out there that can get women and dates, but they are perpetually single and always looking for another option, because they just can’t seem to make things work. If you find yourself in the same boat, or in a lonely place, and you want to change things up, you’ll want to avoid making the 3 mistakes that guys make with women all the time. There are 3 major problems that you’ll find is common when dealing with women and avoiding them is not that difficult, it’s just a matter of knowing what to do, and what to say.
The first major thing that you need to avoid is trying to talk about sex or insinuating anything in relationship to that. Do not talk about this and do not try to be too aggressive, this will turn her off. You absolutely need to avoid this at all costs. You will find that if you make unwarranted passes and try to communicate about this before it’s time, you will not get her to stick around too long. Let her make the first move in this department if it’s about communication, or else you could be on another lonely path.
Some say that chivalry is dead, while others assume that women want equal rights. The biggest mistake when dating is trying to be too much on either side of this coin, which can prove to be somewhat negative overall. Instead of trying to be too much on either side, make sure that you move towards more chivalrous actions when they are open. For instance, open doors, offer her your jacket, and try to focus on doing things that make her feel comfortable.
Another big mistake that men make is they don’t listen enough. Pay close attention as to what is going on, and ask questions that show her that you are listening. If you aren’t interested, try to force some sort of attention so that you are not ignoring her in any way. Most men end up trying to talk about themselves or ignore their date, which can only prove to be problematic. Don’t go that route, you will be sorely disappointed, so pay attention, and keep in the conversation no matter what.
The preceding 3 mistakes that guys make with women are just some of the disastrous things that you’ll end up having to avoid if you’re serious about getting the girl of your dreams. Do not make the above mistakes, and instead try to focus on treating her with the utmost respect, and above all else, pay attention! If you want to move forward, you won’t need to throw up a huge banner, it will come easy, but only if you try to stick to being thoughtful, kind, and a good conversationalist.
One thing that you will want to be wary of, is being too nice, so don’t let her simply run all over the place without you, get involved, ask questions, and communicate. More back and forth there is, the better your dating experience will become.
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