Exposing The Leak Around The World

The last thing that you probably want to do is waste your time in a relationship with a guy who isn’t really all that serious about you. To spend time with someone only to realize that you were way more serious about the relationship than they were can be a humbling and even humiliating experience. You probably are not looking for that to happen, so you may be interested in figuring out whether or not the guy you are with is really serious about you or if you are just wasting your time.
Here are 3 clues that he is NOT really serious about being with you:

1) He makes just about everything else in his life a priority over you.
Does he seem to break plans with you whenever anything else comes up? Is he the kind of guy who will blow off date night with you just to go hang out with the guys at the bar and shoot some pool? If he is willing to ditch you for something else most of the time, I’d hate to say it, but he is probably not that serious about you. When a guy is serious about a woman he is dating, he’ll make sure that he spends time with her.

2) He doesn’t want to talk about the future with you.
Have you tried to get him talking about future plans with you and every time that you do, he seems to find a way to talk about something else or he just flat out makes it clear that he doesn’t like to talk about that stuff? While it is true that some guys just have a really hard time talking about future plans, usually they will at least try and give it some effort if they are really serious about the relationship working out. If he is unwilling to even give it a shot, then chances are it is because he is not that serious about the relationship.

3) He talks about other women in front of you.
I don’t mean talking about celebrities that he is never going to meet. I mean, does he talk about women that pass by when you are out with him and make comments that show he is still kind of looking around? That would probably be a good indication that he is the kind of guy who will up and leave if he feels like he can “upgrade” and that is probably not the kind of guy you want to be with.

 
 A SIXTY-YEAR-OLD man was last Wednesday arrested by the police in Kumasi after he was caught fingering a 17-year-old girl in a car at Kwadaso, a suburb of Kumasi.

Opanyin Kofi Appiah was caught in the act on Wednesday morning by some residents, who had suspected him for the past three months of engaging in sexual activity with young girls in the area.

According to information, the suspect was frequently found parking his vehicle on the road side, close to the Kwadaso Beposo Cluster of Schools, and would call young school girls under the pretext of sending them on an errand.



His persistent attitude did not, however, go down well with a security man at the school, who decided to put him under surveillance.

Luck, however, ran out on the suspect last week, when he called one of the school girls, Sarah Nimo and asked her to buy him a slice of water melon.

The security man, Nana Nimo, told a radio correspondent with KESSBEN FM, Awuku Addo that after the girl had brought the water melon, Opanyin Kofi Appiah, asked her to sit in the car which the girl innocently obliged.

Some few minutes later, Nana Nimo, who was carefully watching proceedings approached the vehicle and forcibly opened the door and saw the suspect busily fingering the girl whilst she also massaged his penis.

Opanyin Appiah, who was in pajamas with no pants on, had folded the cloth up to the stomach and busily taking advantage of the poor girl, said to be an imbecile.

An alarm raised by Nana Nimo drew the attention of neighbors and passersby to the scene and the suspect was subsequently arrested and handed over to the Sofoline Police.

Some residents around the area confirmed that they had seen the suspect on countless occasions in a parked vehicle at the vicinity. E N D.

1. Being too domineering.
Without a doubt, a woman likes to be with a man who has ability to make her feel safe. But that does not mean every decision is made by the man. Relationships are a series of decisions that don’t happen in a vacuum. Everyone wins when decisions are made based on mutual needs and compromises. Relationships are democracies, not dictatorships.


2. Indecisive.
Women hate it when a man waffles. Make decisions whether they are right or wrong. Be confident and show leadership.

3. Lack of romance.
Romanticism is certainly what all women want when it comes to relationship. Romance can mean different things to different women but women all love the words “l love you”. Start or end you day with those words.

4. Having a foul mouth.
Women are turned off by men who overly use swear words. Not only is it rude, but also shows a limited vocabulary. It can be extremely embarrassing when your man doesn’t know he’s actually swearing and does it in front of your parents or friends. Swearing is a habit and like any habit, can be broken.

5. Lack of non sexual intimacy.
How often do you just hold hands, massage your partner, cuddle, or kiss without expecting sex. Try it. She’ll love you for it. See #6 below.

6. Being too predictable.
A lack of spontaneity can make a relationship boring. TV at 8:00, bed at 10:00 blah blah. Get out of your routine and break out of your paradigm. Create a spark and go out to dinner or a movie on a weekday. Surprise your women with flowers for no reason. Make her dinner on a Wednesday. Surprise her and stop being predictable. Throw her a curveball, she’ll love it.

7. Unable to prioritize their partner’s needs.
Among many relationship problems, it seems that inability for some men to put their partner first is a major one. Consider your partner’s needs and wants above everything else. Find a quite time to talk and ask questions about your partner’s day. Make her feel special. Look her in the eyes when you talk to her. Ask questions and listen deeply. Making her feel important is about paying attention and prioritizing her in your life.

8. Being too confident.
Being too confident tends to make men look cocky and arrogant. Being humble is an attractive attribute. You aren’t perfect so don’t act like it. It’s okay to make mistakes, you are human. Get the opinion of others, it’s the best way to learn.

9. Jealousy.
No one likes a jealous partner, especially women. Jealousy is usually a sign that one partner doesn’t trust the other. When communicating, take what she says at face value and remember that women and men communicate at different levels. Try not to read anything into what she says or does. Listen only to the words she uses and base your perceptions on what is said.

10. Not being romantically exclusive.
Most relationship problems tend to manifest from different expectations about the relationship. Men tend to fantasize about having multiple partners. When committing to a woman who expects an exclusive relationship, be true and stay in the moment. If you can’t be, don’t get into a relationship where one partner wants exclusivity.

When it comes to dating, men aren’t exactly the smartest most of the time. Sure, there are a lot of men out there that can get women and dates, but they are perpetually single and always looking for another option, because they just can’t seem to make things work. If you find yourself in the same boat, or in a lonely place, and you want to change things up, you’ll want to avoid making the 3 mistakes that guys make with women all the time. There are 3 major problems that you’ll find is common when dealing with women and avoiding them is not that difficult, it’s just a matter of knowing what to do, and what to say.
The first major thing that you need to avoid is trying to talk about sex or insinuating anything in relationship to that. Do not talk about this and do not try to be too aggressive, this will turn her off. You absolutely need to avoid this at all costs. You will find that if you make unwarranted passes and try to communicate about this before it’s time, you will not get her to stick around too long. Let her make the first move in this department if it’s about communication, or else you could be on another lonely path.
Some say that chivalry is dead, while others assume that women want equal rights. The biggest mistake when dating is trying to be too much on either side of this coin, which can prove to be somewhat negative overall. Instead of trying to be too much on either side, make sure that you move towards more chivalrous actions when they are open. For instance, open doors, offer her your jacket, and try to focus on doing things that make her feel comfortable.
Another big mistake that men make is they don’t listen enough. Pay close attention as to what is going on, and ask questions that show her that you are listening. If you aren’t interested, try to force some sort of attention so that you are not ignoring her in any way. Most men end up trying to talk about themselves or ignore their date, which can only prove to be problematic. Don’t go that route, you will be sorely disappointed, so pay attention, and keep in the conversation no matter what.
The preceding 3 mistakes that guys make with women are just some of the disastrous things that you’ll end up having to avoid if you’re serious about getting the girl of your dreams. Do not make the above mistakes, and instead try to focus on treating her with the utmost respect, and above all else, pay attention! If you want to move forward, you won’t need to throw up a huge banner, it will come easy, but only if you try to stick to being thoughtful, kind, and a good conversationalist.
One thing that you will want to be wary of, is being too nice, so don’t let her simply run all over the place without you, get involved, ask questions, and communicate. More back and forth there is, the better your dating experience will become.

If you’re shy and nervous, it might be difficult for you to successfully go through your first date. Most shy guys don’t be able to make a good impression toward their date, and as a result, they keep being single again and again. If you want to avoid this scenario, you have to build a courage to shatter your shyness and nervousness around women. Here are 7 simple dating tips for shy and nervous guys:

1. Reinforce positive image about yourself
If you keep telling yourself that you’re shy and you’re worthless or you’re incapable to handle the situation, then the reality will turn out to be that way. Remember that how you perceive yourself will project on how people perceive you. So, if you think you’re unworthy, your date will think the same. That’s why you need to reinforce your positive image. Begin talking to yourself that you’re worthy and deserve a good and fulfilling dating experience. This will become a strong foundation to build your confidence.

2. Remember that you’re dating an ordinary person
No matter how beautiful she is, she’s just an ordinary person just like you. So, don’t put yourself below her or above her. You are both equal, and in this sense, you don’t need to be afraid about her. Most people will strengthen their shyness and nervousness when they think that they’re dating a supermodel or a goddess. That’s because they’re putting themselves below their dating partner. You can’t do that if you want to have a successful date. You need to see her as your equal.

3. Wear good clothes
Do you know that you’ll feel more unworthy when you’re wearing lame clothes? That’s why you need to make your appearance outstanding. Your clothing will play an important role in your dating success. If you wear good clothes that make you good-looking, you will feel better about yourself. Also, your date will compliment you and she will feel comfortable to be around you. Then, the conversation and the whole dating process will flow smoothly.

4. Be humble
One positive quality of shy people is that usually they’re humble with themselves. They don’t brag, or think that they are better than others. You should cherish this quality in you. Not all shyness is bad, especially this one quality. Be humble to your date, and she will respect you more. However, it doesn’t mean that you need to be needy toward her. She doesn’t want that. When you’re humble, you’re not trying to please her or seduce her, but you’re trying to get along with her well. You know, if you do this, she will perceive you as different from other guys and you’ll become more challenging to her.

5. Don’t force yourself
At some point, you will feel that you’re clumsy. You’ll feel that you can’t completely eliminate nervousness in front of her. At this point, you just need to keep yourself calm and don’t force yourself. Listen to what she’s talking and follow along as much as you can. Sometimes, you can take the lead as well. Just do it, even though you feel clumsy at it. It’s not easy to completely turn a shy person to a confident person in a short time. But, the most important point is that you’ve tried it. You’ve changed yourself, one step at a time.

6. Keep friendly gestures
Most shy people tend to become rude to people, because they think that they don’t deserve the care from others. You need to keep this in mind, and avoid this tendency. You need to avoid being rude to your date. Keep friendly gestures. Smile a lot to her, and laugh with her. It will help you to create enjoyable conversation with her. A friendly gesture will help you to add more positive impression about you.

7. Practice before you go
In order to make you a better communicator, you need to practice often. Before going to your date, you should practice talking with as much people as possible. Start with your own family members, and then your friends, and then your extended family, and then the friends of your friends. Practice talking with them. Have a small conversation with them. It will help you to build up courage and increase your confidence. With practice, you can overcome your shyness toward women and you will have a good and successful date.
Those tips will help you to avoid failure in dating if you’re shy or nervous around girls. Apply the tips above to make yourself a better, and more confident person. You can’t achieve it overnight, but you’ll eventually achieve it if you keep on moving forward.
Source: Jack Neville girlfriendin7days.com